Hello , I’m Najihayana  , in my opinion , FRIENDSHIP is all about having someone that is care , concern and always be with you no matter how miserable your life is . I want to share an experience of mine on friendship .  When i was in my high school , i do have a lot of friends , but not all of them who care for you like a real friend cared .  I have a friend who is a backstabber , a friend who disappear when i’m in trouble , and there is also a friend who care about me , a friend who listen to my  problem , one who motivate me  when i’m are facing a huge trouble and one who always be with me no matter what . That is a friend that very hard to fine ,  difficult to leave and impossible to forget

Many of us think that one day we will find a true friend , for me , real true friend never exist . Why did i said so ? Its is because there is no human  on this earth who will ever waste his / her valuable time just to stand right next to you when ever you have problem . They will be around you when your life is full with laughther , and they are the one who will disappear when you need a shoulder to cry on . But , i guess , that just the way it is . That is how life is here . We cant predict and we cant choose who are going to be our friend , that was the fated that God has stated for us .

For me , I will accept who ever comes in my life , to be friend with me and I will never be sad if the one that once i called him/her  ‘ friend ‘ goes away from my life without saying goodbye . Because i trust that the God must have a reason why is it goes like that , why is my friend go away from me , and the most important thing , i’m sure that there is someone out there that who was born to be my friend , real friend .