Hello , I’m Najihayana  , in my opinion , FRIENDSHIP is all about having someone that is care , concern and always be with you no matter how miserable your life is . I want to share an experience of mine on friendship .  When i was in my high school , i do have a lot of friends , but not all of them who care for you like a real friend cared .  I have a friend who is a backstabber , a friend who disappear when i’m in trouble , and there is also a friend who care about me , a friend who listen to my  problem , one who motivate me  when i’m are facing a huge trouble and one who always be with me no matter what . That is a friend that very hard to fine ,  difficult to leave and impossible to forget

Many of us think that one day we will find a true friend , for me , real true friend never exist . Why did i said so ? Its is because there is no human  on this earth who will ever waste his / her valuable time just to stand right next to you when ever you have problem . They will be around you when your life is full with laughther , and they are the one who will disappear when you need a shoulder to cry on . But , i guess , that just the way it is . That is how life is here . We cant predict and we cant choose who are going to be our friend , that was the fated that God has stated for us .

For me , I will accept who ever comes in my life , to be friend with me and I will never be sad if the one that once i called him/her  ‘ friend ‘ goes away from my life without saying goodbye . Because i trust that the God must have a reason why is it goes like that , why is my friend go away from me , and the most important thing , i’m sure that there is someone out there that who was born to be my friend , real friend . 

Treasure

The Past N Fun

Have you ever once thought of the past? Have a flash back, feeling to get back in time, feeling younger again and done something childish with your old buddy. In my post today, I want to share about treasuring the moment and memories of the past.

Recollection of time always make us laugh because it could make us feel the sweet and sour of life. If you have best friend or an enemy, try keep them in our memory because memories are the only paradise from which we can never be expelled. Be a helpful person toward your friends and a challenger towards your enemies, No matter how far we travel, the memories will follow in the baggage car.

Some might say that only a fool stores his past in the future. But seriously We must always have old memories and young hopes because some life lasts a short while, but the memories it holds last forever. The past have always brings huge impact in life. You may not be here next to me but every second and minute your presence lingers on in my thoughts and prayers; renew my spirit to greater most highest place. Moment we share together is a memories I surely treasure forever. Your passionate way of making me feel love, care of and happy I will cherish till death do us part.

Some look forward to sporting events, some look forward to seasons changing, some look forward to holidays, and some look forward to their recreational time. I look forward to everything, but choose carefully to only look back at the good times, great memories, and all those wonderful moments we created with love in our hearts.

Here's a video about how time past and change us. What takes us back to the past is our memories. What brings us forward is our dreams. Sorry the language is in malay and it has no subtitle. Enjoy :)

Why do we need best friends?

            A friend in need is a friend indeed.
              
    “Only a true best friend can protect you from your immortal   enemies.”
― Richelle Mead, Vampire Academy

True friends are not opportunists. They don't help, because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is marked by selflessness. Best friends support even each other, even if the whole world opposes them. It is not easy getting true friends for the lifetime. If you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. Remember, all best friends are friends, but not all friends can be best friends. In this world of cynics and back stabbers, there are still some people who are worth being friends with. They have to be recognized and respected for being best friends, for the lifetime.

POEM ABOUT FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is the bread of life. It is essential to our well being. 

We could not survive without it. Ever since the beginning of time 

we have been extending the hand of friendship to each other. In very

 primitive communities, having the help of others in a crisis is a matter of 

survival. However, even in today's world where it seems as if we could 

survive without ever talking to another human being, friendship is important.

 Friendship is a prerequisite to sanity. We are social human beings and

 we need friends to survive.

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Source: http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poems/friend/friendship/#ixzz37c0WTdY3 

Family Friend Poems

What are friends ? Friend in need is friend in deed.. All of us need and should have friends in this world. There will be time that everybody in a stuck situation and in the most difficult times.ALL human being need to have friend for them to share all their problems and hear their voice.It would be miserable if one that have a mountain of problems that unsolved and keep in on their own. That is very stressful. So this is the role of a friend.A friend is like  a bread and peanutbutter. They must always be together. A good friend always be with their friend through thick and thin. This is what friend should do.. 

                       

sweet sour of friendship

Assalammualaikum , Hello , greetings to everyone who've come to this blog . Basically , this blog was created to share the experience , opinion and story on friendship from the members of this blog  and they are ....... Hahaha.

Based on the research from the internet , friendship was define as having a good relationship with someone, who we call a friend . People in a friendship have respect and affection for each other. A friendship is different from a romantic relationship . Friends do not necessarily love each other romantically. 

A friend is a person that someone likes or knows. People who are friends talk to each other and spend time together. They also help each other when they are in trouble or are hurt. Friends are people that can be looked up to and trusted. Sometimes people can't tell their secrets to their parents so they tell it to their friends. Usually friends have similar interests. A friend is one who admires a person's skill and helps or encourages them to make the right choices. 

The strength of the bond of friendship between two people can vary. If the bond is very strong, they are called best friends. This can usually be achieved by possessing the elements of friendship, by being kind, generous, loyal, honest and by having fun. With these qualities you can truly enjoy the bliss of friendship. There are expectations, demands and complaints in friendship too. Some people say these should not be there in friendship. But two people interact in this world only when there are expectations. Friends can help you materialistically and morally. But if they don't match with your expectations, it doesn't mean you will break the frienship. This is what is different in friendship as compared to love relationship between two couples. Its all about understanding, realizing and helping whenever possible.

As conclusion from the first post from us , friendship is a desire of each and everyone of the earth . As a human we need friend , it does not matter how many they are , how pretty they are , how famous they are in school , how brilliant they are , what matter most is that : are they the one who stay with us in what ever condition we are in ? If they were gone while you are struggling alone in a situation , that is when the ' friend ' reveal it true self . 

GREAT FRIEND 

ARE HARD TO FIND , 

DIFFICULT TO LEAVE 

AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET